10.27.2014

Sunday in England: Hope for a Lingua Franca in a Global Christian Community

Yesterday, I spent the whole day in church. The whooooole stinkin day. And yes, I’m still here. Now, I confess I strongly dislike church services. I’ll go for the people, but the services generally make me want to sleep, check the “free” section on craigslist, and write incendiary blog posts all at the same time. But today, I went to 3 very different churches here in the UK: a traditional Pentecostal Ghanaian church in Birmingham, a contemporary pan-African Pentecostal church in Nottingham (beautiful, but no sheriff as far as I could see), and a beskinnyjeaned (off)white pseudocostal church in Trent. For me, they represented three very unique cultures and approaches to ministry within broader British society (which necessarily includes a tremendous kaleidoscope of cultures.

Maybe some backstory is due? Okay, I hate backstory. But I bet you’ll love it...

Harvey is a someone I met in Minnesota while he was a student working on his PhD and I was a substitute teacher working on getting kids to please please quiet down and listen for just a sec guys. He was a blossoming African scholar that hadn’t been to Africa in years. I was a dumb American with lots of curiosity some recent experience in Africa. I suppose we were both cultural oddities and it just worked.



Last September I suggested he fly down from England to meet me at a big missions/discipleship summit in Ghana, which he did. We met at the alarmingly huge convention center of what may be Ghana’s most powerful single religious movement today: the Church of Pentecost. This conservative, strongly-regimented network of churches has high structure, incredible resources, and an ever-expanding reach through it many churches in exile throughout the West. Through that conference, Harvey developed a friendship with the Church of Pentecost in Birmingham where he was living. Harvey recently put on a conference called “Missio Africanus”, a network designed to missionalize the African church in the West... (did I mention I was one of the first members?) and by some miracle, he got the Church of Pentecost chairman (the top dog himself) to be a keynote speaker. The chairman, in turn, poached Harvey.

Feeling the growing pains of being a culturally-rooted Ghanaian church movement losing its young members in droves (most services aren’t even in English), the Church of Pentecost engaged Harvey and Missio Africanus to lead a cross-cultural missions conversation and help the churches adjust to their European context. They also bought the properties of Birmingham Christian College and are renovating it to become the training hub for all their European ministers. In case that doesn’t land heavily on you, then let’s just take a moment of silence together... An African church just bought a big chunk of a British University to be designated as a bible college for hundreds of students, including its sizeable contingent of ministers in Europe. And guess who they put in the missiological drivers seat of this thing?

So Harvey now has the unenviable task of integrating his Malawian-yet-not-quite-Malawian self into a staunchly Ghanaian movement, teaching at the school, and leading these Ghanaian congregations out of cultural self-isolation and into a missional relevance trying to revitalize Christianity in 21st-century Europe (which happens to be the thrust of his excellent new book on reverse mission). Sounds exciting, but... hard.

Church #1 demonstrated that point well. It was everything I’ve come to expect from African Pentecostal churches with a special national (in this case, Ghanaian) flare. A small rented room draped in the green, gold, and black of the Ghanaian flag. The pastors and honored members sat on stage facing the congregation while the worship band sang (sometimes completely butchering) contemporary praise music from 30 years ago in typical African fashion: the worship leader starts singing and the keyboardist noodles around til he finds the right key. Then he has a short midstream conversation with the bassist after which he breaks out in loud 1,4,5 African polka (no matter how soft the song) which the drummer dutifully follows with something vaguely reggae until the song ends. An elder got up and had a quasi-theological discourse with the congregation about grace, creating some grace/works confusion along the way. Luckily, the pastor straightened out neatly. The pastor’s wife preached a lovely sermon on Esther (the main points of which I can’t recall at the moment). Then it was announcements and another small sermon or two. The people were gracious and welcoming enough. But any African not from Ghana (much less a westerner) would be hard-pressed to find a home there.

Church #2 was an interesting mix of Malawian, Zimbabweans, and South Africans meeting in a tiny old church in the heart of Nottingham. There can’t have been more than 30 people there, but I was immediately struck by the music: an incredibly talented band of all Africans playing Hillsong and other contemporary “western” worship with striking skill and passion. I was surprised by this but even more surprised when I noticed everyone young and old (myself included) connecting deeply with this expression of worship. I later sat down with the keyboard player (who gave me an impromptu lesson in jazz piano). He talked about that music as a “universal style” which differed from American rock worship. It was something he told me resonates deeply with Christians worldwide. As I thought about it, I realized there really are no comparable secular genres for that style of worship music in America: it is distinct and apparently becoming a lingua franca for globalized Christians around the world.

The preaching was (let us be frank) horrible. In the absence of their pastor (who was recovering from a stroke), the lay leadership limped along with half-baked gospel presentations full of “amen” and “hallelujah” fillers (which sounded better than “um”), and uncomfortably exuberant pontificating on the importance of giving. It was all pretty tasteless. So when Harvey and Nancy’s adorable 16-month daughter, Rochelle, got restless, I volunteered myself for nursery duty. I took Rochelle upstairs with all the second-generation immigrant African kids speaking in perfect British accents, possibly less African than I am! After the service, everybody was exceptionally warm and inviting in ways the Ghanaian church had not been. They told me how they were reaching out to the community with their food pantry and trying to be a blessing to Nottingham (imagine that). I felt that if the preaching was better and the church was a little bigger, I really could feel at home in a place like this. Even though I stuck out like a sore thumb, I felt comfortable, accepted.

Church #3 was the Trent Vineyard. This one just knocked me over. It was featured on the BBC as one of the few churches that is growing in the UK while most churches are folding. And boy is it growing. Walking into the huge pristine warehouse, I began to see why. A beautiful full-service coffee shop adjoined one side of the sanctuary while the church’s famed bar (yes, a fully licensed bar) opened to the other side of the room. The main hall was designed perfectly: industrial chic with calming grays punctuated by tasteful art pieces alluding to the spiritual nature of that community: a painting of a large crown of thorns, snippets of poetry, a bible verse. Perfect lighting, sound, couches in the back. The band played western rock worship (Tomlin along with several originals) that had the thousand-strong crowd of cool young Britons raising hands, jumping, crying, and closing their eyes in the private emotional cloister of their personal encounters with God.

I admit I was awed, then drawn in. And while I think both the band and most of the church was being genuine in their expression of worship, an eerie realization dawned on me: every element of this experience from the coffee shop, to the guitar-playing, to the color palette, is designed to appeal to my young, white, middle-class sensibilities. It’s a carefully crafted atmosphere made just for me; to cause me to exhale when I come to church and say, “ah.... now I feel better.” But it’s not just the atmosphere: the church offers dozens of small groups, special activities, even a pudding party (what even IS that?!) to connect otherwise isolated people to a strong community with a culture that offers a distinct and refreshing alternative to what’s available in the mainstream. The sermon, though boring, was also crafted for the timid white Christian professional: basically, “find natural ways to share Jesus with friends and colleagues without being rude, nosy, or obnoxious.”

Having been in Vineyard churches in America, I could taste, feel, almost smell that culture when I walked in the room. It’s a culture where I once found tremendous belonging and spiritual momentum. And while I applaud their incredible intentionality in reaching out to young white students and professionals in Britain, something told me I had moved on... that my own emerging Africanness was pushing me away from that culture and not into it. And certainly as I looked over at Harvey and Nancy I could tell they were underwhelmed, that they felt their differentness keenly. Interestingly, at one quiet moment during worship, Rochelle shouted “Daddy! Daddy!” which one woman later told the congregation was (she felt) a word from God.

Also, after getting a beer from the nice Christian fellas at the bar, I told Harvey that if I ever planted a church, half our revenue would come from liquor sales. He laughed and said, “nothing quite like harnessing your American capitalism for the sake of the kingdom.”
“Oh come on!” I ribbed. “We can make nice with capitalism for Jesus’ sake can’t we?”
“Of course,” he grinned. “I agree with that!”

I suppose as I reflect on my experiences yesterday, the main takeaways have become an argument for multiculturalism. I’ve never really understood the point of multicultural congregations. They’ve seemed forced, driven by idealism or guilt, and poised for conflict or a watering-down that never quite pleases anyone. But on another level, maybe I’ve never understood the need for multicultural communities because I’ve never understood the need to live deeply with other peoples’ stories, the stories of other communities. I was raised in a homogeneous church and though I never liked it, though I always knew something was missing, I never thought that one of those somethings might be a multiplicity of cultural voices. Like the dutiful rationalist I was, I figured our community could (in theory) reason through any problem or deficit it encountered within itself, even if it chose not to. But my growing conviction is the family of God is incomplete unless all the family members are present. And while I value deeply-contextualized attempts to reach a single culture, I believe we can, and should, find a common Christian language peppered with our own stories, our distinctiveness. Heck, if Coke can do it, why not the church? It’s a language bound together by scripture, an authentic encounter with God, and the humility and love to press into our differences.
                 
Once we find that language (which can only be accomplished in a global community), we can open our doors and our relational space to the strangers in our community, the cultural minorities (or majorities) in our midst. Not just because they need us but because we also need them. They’re not optional guests at a graduation party. They’re needed family members at the dinner table. We don’t do diversity for tolerance brownie points. We do it for wholeness. The Church of Pentecost can NOT continue to grow spiritually without the British. The Vineyard NEEDS Malawians and Indians and poor whites if it wants to grow deep as well as wide. The Anglicans need immigrant voices to revitalize their faith. We need those voices not only in our congregations but in our lives, our community, our group of friends. If we can welcome those voices, make friends with them, learn to trust them, we will find ourselves growing. Our faith will grow, our humility will our, our compassion will grow.

The African philosophy of Ubuntu teaches that you must welcome the stranger because you never know what the stranger might bring to you, what he might contribute to your life, your community. Similarly, we have not yet understood what the stranger in our midst has to offer. But I daresay it is much better than we have dreamed.


10.22.2014

No Ghana fo' You. But England.... Just Might Do.

I was supposed to be in the air right now heading for Ghana. I was supposed to be sleeping out in the camps of the nomadic Fulani tribe, deepening a friendship with them. I was supposed to help gather 200 of them for a daylong meeting. I was supposed to be having discipleship conversations with some of the brightest young leaders at a 3-day leadership conference. But instead of packing mosquito nets, I’m packing sweaters. Instead of Fulani camps and leadership conferences, I’ll be in the homes and classrooms of the African diaspora in (of all places), England.

You guessed it: Ebola. Ghana is Ebola free for the time being, but in light global talks about grounding flights from West Africa, we decided over the weekend not to take the chance of getting stranded (or worse).

But there was another strategic part of this trip I hadn’t talked much about: a stopover in the UK to visit a good friend, African missiologist Harvey Kwiyani. Harvey is from Malawi, but he works with Ghanaian and Nigerian churches throughout the UK in discipleship and missions while teaching at the University of Birmingham. I was hoping to build my friendship with him and grow a possible ministry to Africans in the UK, something Harvey and I could work on together.

So I’ve decided to keep the UK portion and extend it to 9 days. I’ll be sharing some of my story in on Harvey’s classes, networking with the African leaders he’s teaching, and generally making myself available to whatever God wants to do. Harvey told me, “You’ll feel like you’re in Ghana the whole time!”

Crazy story: Harvey (under my left arm) flew from the UK to Ghana last year to join me and my friend Ash (from my church) for a conference on missions and discipleship. While there, we met Emanuvel (under my right arm) who lives in Chennai, India. Ash and I fell in love with his passion for Jesus and fatherly heart. SOOOO.... (spoiler alert!!) Ash and I are planning to visit Emanuvel in India this January. Naomi is the Ghanaian in the middle making Emanuvel laugh (an effect she seems to have on everyone). I love this picture because so many of my worlds are colliding. All my globetrotting comes together and makes more sense when you know the incredible people I'm traveling to see.


Then in a very recent surprising series of developments it was decided that some close friends from Chicago will be meeting coming to meet me in the UK for a few days of tromping around Whales, eating in pubs, touring castles, making my wife sick with envy, etc. I won’t lie: it’s going to be a lot of fun. But I also have to wonder what God is up to. These are friends I’ve invested a lot of time and energy in and I wonder what God might do in their discipleship journey (as well as mine) through our time together.

I’m really disappointed about missing out on my time with the Fulani in Ghana. I even had a dream the other night that I was speaking surprisingly good Pulaar with a Fulani lady at the market. But I’m also encouraged to know that the meeting will go on without me. It is being supported by many of my friends and donors, and hosted by local pastor Jonah Manyan, one of the humblest and most genuinely caring people I know. It’s very possible that it will go better without the distraction of grinning white faces... at least for now.


As for me, I’m off to the UK tonight (if the buddy-pass gods allow). I’m excited about what I know is going to happen. I’m especially excited about the people I know I get to spend tim with. But I’m just as excited about the things and people I DON’T know about yet. Adventures away!

10.15.2014

Journeying Toward Humility

Last weekend, I “retreated” with 60 other guys from my church. And while the atmosphere was much deeper and more relational than previous years, I still felt the testosteronish discomfort in the room about opening up TOO much. But Gary, our fearless leader pressed in to the discomfort by asking the guys to walk around and give words of blessing and encouragement to each other. Suddenly everybody was like....




Nevertheless, guys started mingling and after a number of kind words were exchanged, an older guy who I happen to have a lot of respect for approached me. Very sincerely he said to me, “You’re good at so many different things. God has gifted you in so many ways. It would be easy to start thinking too highly of yourself. But if you can stay humble, I think God is going to accomplish great things through you.”

I think he’s right... and it got me thinking about pride and humility, a familiar refrain in my story. One blogger said if you talk a lot about humility, you probably haven’t achieved it. I suppose for me, that’s true. I’ve walked a life-long journey with spiritual pride. I’ve seen its consequences and I hate it. I’ve also seen that the flipside of pride is self-loathing and judgment. I hate that too. But I doubt I’ve achieved humility.

I’m going to Ghana next week. I get to do some really cool things with some really cool people. I get to travel out into the Fulani villages, host a couple hundred Fulani for a 1-day conference, hang out with some of the brightest Christian leaders around. Part of me says, “this is awesome! If other people could do things my way, their ministries would be awesome too!” Of course it’s a silly thought. I had very little to do with the success of the Ghana ministry. In a sense I’m just along for the ride. God made it happen and Jonah is the guy on the ground busting his back making friends with the Fulani. I’m just the guy on the other crackly end of the telephone saying, “Yay!”



And in fact, I had this dream last weekend that I was in Ghana trying to communicate something about God’s love to the Fulani and they started arguing with me, scoffing at me. As things got increasing hostile, it became clear that I was failing in so many ways. I woke up wondering how I would feel if that actually happened, if I crashed and burned with the Fulani. Not good I suppose. But is that ultimately in my control? Am I ultimately a self-made man, bearing the full weight of both success and failure? I hope not! Because if that’s not the case, there’s room for both humility and joy. There’s room for conviction, even guilt, self-correction, celebration, momentum, and courage. But there’s no room for shame or pride. Because the ultimate glory and responsibility goes to God and I just get to say, “yay!”

For me, the real story with humility is a story of God’s kindness and love. Because the pendulum would keep swinging back and forth between self-loathing and pride (with loads of judgment for myself and others) unless something stepped in to knock the pendulum off its track. For me, it usually comes in the form of a humbling/humiliating experience right on the tail end of a major success.

Or, when I have my head screwed on straight, I can sometimes take a deep breath and back away from that self-congratulatory smugness. And sometimes when I pray I feel like God actually gives me the choice: Deflate that ego, or I’ll do it for you. And that’s really kind of Him because it says that God cares enough about me to not let me get away with pride (and all the shame and judgment that comes with it)... at least not for very long.


I’m trying to adjust my beliefs. I’m trying to begin to view success as a really good but really dangerous thing.... and failure as a potentially beautiful, redemptive thing; So that whatever happens, I grow, and Jesus grows inside me. For now, I’m humming the words of a song I wrote one night 10 years ago on a bridge in Ecuador (long story). It has become an anchoring prayer for me whenever I need some humbling. Here it is....


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